IS MY GF MANIPULATING OR NOT
“Pata hai aaj kya hua”
So basically i have been dating a girl for over 4 years and she seems to be the best female i had interacted with
but as time goes we are in college and somehow im able to earn 1lac a month and my biggest mistake was telling her this as soon as i told her about this she began to say that her phone sucks and
she wants an iphone no android as she had a very old phone like very old so i didn’t think too much and told her a big yes and finally she convinced me to buy her an iphone 16 which worth 67000 but that was not a big deal for me
but i didn’t wanted to pay whole amount together so her cousin’s friend gave us 30000 and told us pay in 3 months installment 10K/month which was absolutely fine and ok to me so i took my 37000rs in cash and that 30000rs in cash too and bought her an iphone….
Now the manipulating starts like i was kinda busy in family function as it was big brother weeding and i didn’t replied her on time many times since it was first weeding of our home so i wanted to focus more on the weeding
so she told me that she’s talking to one of her cousin brother who isn’t her cousin but have some relevance together so she started taking his name and kept on saying that he will pay that 30000 installment u don’t have to worry
as he loves her so i told her okay go ahead let him pay that will save my money but after 1 day she said that as he paid money too now the iphone belongs to him and he has bought that iphone to her
and she said that she will give more attention and time to him as he had paid money for that iphone like wtf are u kidding me and this same thing happened 1 year ago through which she convinced me to buy her an ipad
and i did with all of my savings that i saved to buy a 240hz monitor and a steering wheel now too i also thought of buying my mother an iphone which ended up buying her an iphone.
I think because she has always lived in a small house and has money problems all the time she always wanted to have something which father couldn’t afford
so now she is using me to buy her skincare,makeup,blinkit,zomato,swiggy,myntra,amazon,etc im confused af like what to do how should i control her
Also she is demanding to buy her 13K skincare or either she will ask her cousin to pay for her and she will give attention and time to him and i don’t pay she will have pigment dark circles and what more like idk…
Have spended over 2lacs in 3 years on her just because i always thought that my girl is my first priority and i should fulfill her wishes to make her happy and
that’s all i did still she managed to make me feel like a side character of her story GG to me
Now in confused where should talk to her and just ignore those messages and love her like i used to