Came across this article again and napa ponder na naman ako.
Personally, I was very relaxed during our wedding as we have planned a laid back day. No prep shots, candid shots mostly. Even during the cocktail hour, we were able to interact with our guests.
I have nothing against couples who likes tiktok trends, etc. Depende naman talaga yun sa preference ng couple. All I can say is araw nila yun, let them be. Hindi lahat ng couple ay may time and pera to plan a wedding so inaasa nila sa organizer ang day since they know na mas may alam naman ang organizers sa weddings. Kaya parang template talaga ang ibang weddings.
Performative or not, as long as nag enjoy ang couple and hindi naman sila nang sosolicit sa inyo ng pera, let them be!