u/Negative_Net9382

It hasn’t been a month since she said yes but after we broke up just the April, I found out from the wife of the guy the my ex was so close with. She showed me screenshots of there conversation, posting her on her birthday through close friends only on instagram. I’ve asked her a lot of times of what is her status with him, and even told her that I was never comfortable with them seeing both of them together because if you see them on our production floor they look more of a couple rather than us.

I’ve made it short and simple. Since I’ll be leaving all the screenshots here. Once a narcissist cheater always a narcissist cheater.

I recently broke up with my ex. Actually I don’t know where or how to start this.

After we broke up I recently received messages from different people about her. It was those issues and those things that I am suspicious about her and his guy friend with a wife. During our time together, I actually asked her a lot of times what’s the status of the two of you, because on our workplace if you see them they look more like a couple than us. I told her a lot of times that I was really uncomfortable seeing you too, especially during our courting stage.

After she gave me a yes, and not even a month she was already cheating on me, I only knew believed it after we broke up because of the screenshots sent by his wife. I know I should not pry into it, but those were the answers that I couldn’t get or hear from her. I felt that whenever she opens up about it she gets defensive, protecting him over me. I felt used in a lot of ways. A lot of my friends gave me warnings that she was a red flag but because I love her so deeply I protected her wherein fact they were the once protecting me from her.

What made me question on our relationship was that there already a lot of people who are destroying her because of being a mistress. It was impossible for her to get an issue if there was nothing going on that’s why I kept prying into it because it doesn’t make sense. I never felt intimacy, loved and efforts from her. It was like being in a relationship but without a partner. It felt like I don’t have any rights to know about her and her past or about that guy.

I’ve spoiled her too much, gifted a lot of shoes, vape, clothes and got her a phone that she would help in paying the bill. I know I shouldn’t prying about it especially we have broke up but after knowing the answers. I got so angry at her and those friends that are close to her. I became the worst version of myself. I didn’t do any inappropriate things because she didn’t feel comfortable but after seeing that screenshot it made me feel disgusted.

I never knew that I would be played by her. I was really happy and in love but that hurts, I was used. It was a love turned into hate. I regretted even meeting her and chatting her. I never felt reciprocated and that hurts. I let my angry out after we broke up and seeing those. If she regretted what she did, she should have proven it but I guess not.

Sharing part of my story and it felt like to be in a relationship with her.