Should I go to my ex’s capstone presentation or stay no contact?
Hey everyone, I could really use some outside perspective.
About a week ago, I told my ex that I can’t be friends with her anymore because I’m still in love with her. It was really hard, but I felt like it was the right thing to do for my own mental health.
Now her capstone presentation is coming up, and I’m really conflicted. Part of me wants to go and support her because I still care about her a lot. But at the same time, I feel like showing up might go against the boundary I just set and could mess with my healing.
To make things more confusing, I’ve been seeing her like posts on Instagram about feeling ghosted, and I’m wondering if she’s interpreting my distance that way. I don’t want to hurt her, but I also don’t want to keep myself stuck.
I’m just trying to do the right thing without making things worse for either of us.
Appreciate any advice.