u/National_Quail1123

Not in a sad way, more in a "why didn't anyone warn me" way

In school you saw the same people 5 days a week for years and friendships just happened

Now everyone's busy, lives in different cities, has their own thing going

I've noticed the friendships that survived are the ones where one person just kept showing up. Texting first, calling for no reason, being the one to plan things

It's a lot of effort and I don't think we talk about it enough

How did your close friendships actually start in your 20s