My husband and I are both gamers. We game a lot together and with other friends. However, I enjoy a lot of games that he does not seem to want to play as much, which is fine... I have made a few online gaming friends; only 1 fellow girl gamer and 1/2 guy gamers. It’s tough finding girl gamer friends in a lot of games.
I truly only want good teammates to play with and communicate on the game. These games are team games. My partner is extremely threatened by me talking to any gamer that is not a girl. He gets extremely upset and has specifically said he doesn’t like me playing with other guys. Am I in the wrong?? My friends are all aware that I am married and no weird advances have ever been made.
I feel as though the situation is unfair and controlling. It seems silly, but it feels deep to me. I have reassured my partner that there are no bad intentions and we still game together all the time too. I do not feel trusted or like I am being treated as an adult in the situation. It is not as though I value an online friend more than my marriage at all. But I do value my own personal boundaries etc.. What do I do?