u/Monster_Donut_Pants

I’m watching another random episode on Pluto TV. Javi was freaking out and mad that Jo was at the house when he wasn’t there. Jo I was literally there to talk to Kail about how summer visitation would go for Isaac. Javi start playing Mr. Big Boss and puffing out his chest saying *” I don’t want Jo in my house when I’m not there.”* Kail is calmly asking why. And he’s still puffing out his chest saying it’s his house. As if she has no part of it. And she reminds him. It’s her house too and she just wants to know why. And he’s saying *” I don’t have to tell you why. You should just do what I say.”* If Javi thought he was gonna walk into her life, bought her room, and she was going to just bow down and do what he says no questions asked, he picked the wrong girl. I feel like his ego told him that she was this young single mom who had nothing and would be desperate for any love that he gives her. And he was mistaken. And I feel like he tried to do that with Briana who again was not gonna be the type to just bow down and yes him to death. I think that’s why he and Lauren have been together so long. Because she’s doing exactly what he wants. She’s literally caught him cheating and then went on to marry him and have two more kids with him. Javi just seems like this fame, hungry, egotistical, and narcissistic douche.

Edit: I understand why Javi had concerns. She cheated on a previous boyfriend with Jo. And also Javi is a cheater. He cheated on Kail when he was deployed. He cheated on Lauren. So I understand his concern. But he could’ve told her his concerns. Instead, he literally told her he doesn’t need to give her any reason for why he feels that way, she should just do what he says.

So I’m listening to old TM too while I clean. And Chelsea’s talking about wanting to move out of South Dakota. This is like season four long before Cole entered the picture. How do you think that would’ve gone if she and Aubree actually did move out of South Dakota? How long do you think before she couldn’t handle it and move back?

As awful as Amber had always been, Gary was not much better. I get the vibe rewatching episodes, especially the early ones, that Gary didn’t want to actually be with Amber. I think she was his back burner last resort girl. They’d fight, she’d hit him, and they’d break up. Then the second he heard about her with another guy, he’s sending her flowers. He’s calling her singing love songs and playing guitar to her over the phone.

Here’s what I think Gary would do. He and Amber would fight and break up. He’d go try to be with other women. Probably approach women at clubs or bars. Or maybe Walmart like that one girl. When he struck out enough times, he’d sweet talk Amber so she’d come running back. And if she was with someone else, he’d sweet talk her back to his side so he’d always have her on the back burner when no other women would bother with him. I don’t think he loved Amber. I think his ego loved the fact that he could always sweet talk her and she’d go running. I think he loved basically always having him on his line so he’d could reel her in when he wanted.