u/MessagePublic2710

I know this is not a Christian question but I wanted to get advice from Christians

This is an update of the girl who I was friends with that had a crush on me but slowly started loosing interest in me.
Story for those who don’t know or remember: I was friends with a girl who I knew that had a crush on me. I started to have a crush on her as well but she then slowly started loosing interest in me. So I asked y’all for some advice to see what was going on with her.

So after I asked y’all, I told her how I truly felt about her and asked how she felt about me. She said she thinks I’m a nice guy and likes being friends. The response made me sad. The next day she definitely seemed sad. I went the whole weekend without texting her ( I always texted her everyday). After the weekend she definitely seemed better and happy. But that kind left me sad. Not that I hate seeing her be happy but it made me think she’s slowly moving on from me. I haven’t talked to her ever since I told her the truth (Last week)

So what I’m trying to ask is how should I move on from this. I want to talk to her again as a friend because I really valued our friendship. She never talked about sinful stuff like drama, gossip, etc. she’s really one of my only friends that doesn’t talk about it. What’s also been pressuring me is that I’m a senior in HS and she’s a junior. And I’m about to graduate in 2 weeks and go to college. If I move on from her, I won’t get to talk or see her for the rest of my life. That thought makes me really sad.

What should I do?

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u/MessagePublic2710 — 10 days ago
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I know this is not a Christian question but I wanted to get advice from Christians

This is an update of the girl who I was friends with that had a crush on me but slowly started loosing interest in me.
Story for those who don’t know or remember: I was friends with a girl who I knew that had a crush on me. I started to have a crush on her as well but she then slowly started loosing interest in me. So I asked y’all for some advice to see what was going on with her.

So after I asked y’all, I told her how I truly felt about her and asked how she felt about me. She said she thinks I’m a nice guy and likes being friends. The response made me sad. The next day she definitely seemed sad. I went the whole weekend without texting her ( I always texted her everyday). After the weekend she definitely seemed better and happy. But that kind left me sad. Not that I hate seeing her be happy but it made me think she’s slowly moving on from me. I haven’t talked to her ever since I told her the truth (Last week)

So what I’m trying to ask is how should I move on from this. I want to talk to her again as a friend because I really valued our friendship. She never talked about sinful stuff like drama, gossip, etc. she’s really one of my only friends that doesn’t talk about it. What’s also been pressuring me is that I’m a senior in HS and she’s a junior. And I’m about to graduate in 2 weeks and go to college. If I move on from her, I won’t get to talk or see her for the rest of my life. That thought makes me really sad.

What should I do?

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u/MessagePublic2710 — 10 days ago