u/MentalShrillness

Long story short- I needed a c section with my first after PPROM, failed induction and foetal distress & I was gutted. 8 years later I'm 36 weeks with my 2nd (and last) & have a growth scan + consultant appointment tomorrow as baby was measuring big at my last 2 scans. Up until now I've been adamant about having a vbac, but since the last growth scan at 32w I've been doing more research as well as speaking to family and friends about their experiences and I think an elective c section might be the better option. Is it too late to change my mind? And will I have to fight for it? They did say that depending on how baby is measuring tomorrow they might want him to come sooner as well, so I'm worried that if I decline induction and ask for a section they might tell me it's tough shit basically lol