Is this what my problem is, Or are the symptoms likely something else?
I've never been diagnosed with anything because the doctors just shrug it off but ive had a painful vagina my entire life, random sharp spikes of pain and everything when nothing at all is happening. I have tried pelvic floor pt, dilation therapy, lube, birth control, only gently washing with water, practically everything under the sun to fix it and there has been little to no progress. Any progress that is made resets immediately after and I'm back where I started. I've been tested for sti's and everything was negative. I don't have a partner luckily because I have limited interest in romance but I still want to be able to have sex whenever I truly want to. I also have only had one sexual experience before and it was against my will when I was a teenager, but this pain was with tampons way before that happened. I was 12 years old when I first noticed it with tampons, but I've had the random sharp pains ever since I first became concious as a toddler and just shrugged it off.
I have another appointment with a different gynecologist coming up and maybe I'll finally get an answer and something that will actually help me instead of telling me to try physical therapy or birth control over and over again. What should I tell my new gyno when I attend my appointment to help aid a diagnosis or answer?
Edit: Nothing looks inflamed or unusual, but since this has been lifelong I wouldn't know what "normal" looks like for me.