Posted in another thread, but seeking some advise on how to approach my partner and communicate what I think is going on, because she is hurt and thinks she is the problem.
Long story short, heavily addicted to pornography and masturbation. Quit at the beginning of the year (both). Felt myself getting better, successfully had sex a month and some change ago a few times, and was regularly getting erections. She went through her monthly, it was go time .. and I failed. Twice. Over the period of two days. Could not get hard. Went into my head. Weak morning erection this morning. I had picked up nicotine again over the last month due to life stressors but not heavily so and that was after having quit at the start of the year. I'm heavily concerned and freaking out. Any advice is appreciate