u/MatthewDv11

Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago on good terms and it’s been 4 months of no contact- her birthday is next month and I am wondering do I send a message to wish her as a sign of respect or doi continue the no contact journey ?

I am not looking to get her back but I do worry if I message her it may open some wounds or delay my healing journey but I don’t want to be seen as disrespectful if I don’t wish her ?

Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago on good terms and it’s been 4 months of no contact- her birthday is next month and I am wondering do I send a message to wish her as a sign of respect or doi continue the no contact journey ?

I am not looking to get her back but I do worry if I message her it may open some wounds or delay my healing journey but I don’t want to be seen as disrespectful if I don’t wish her ?