u/Mathemaniac1080

As title states, I've been noticing a concerning number of women trying to participate in this sub to attempt to "debate" us and while that in itself isn't a huge issue on its own, I take issue with how often and how much they swarm many discussions and distract from the topic at hand entirely. Barring memes and some other posts for humor, this space is also, I believe, to help men avoid potentially exploitative encounters/relations with women. The endgame of the Blackpill is to understand how best to live your life in the future after you've accepted and made peace with the fact that women do not and never will find you attractive no matter what, a concept women still try to pointlessly "debate" by offering "perspectives" that do nothing for us but that are only designed to serve them and other women under the guise of "helping young men" (an actual conversation I had here lol).

None of these women care about "helping young men", please do not be fooled by it, as tempting as it is to believe it. Only people that understand and empathize with your struggle, only those that have actually lived it, can truly help you with anything. Women are patently NOT including in that group for reasons I hopefully don't need to explain. So yeah, I'm proposing that we perhaps discuss or find ways to limit how much women can interact with this sub and I suggest that potential bans shouldn't be off the table either, but of course these are just my suggestions and not some comprehensive plan to deal with them. More than open to potential suggestions/discussion over this. Do note that some women will be an exception to this, but we don't need to discuss that right now

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Check it. 90K likes, probably millions of impressions and this is just one post.

As I said before, men and boys, you're not crazy for holding this view. This is literally mainstream, you're just noticing it and using that knowledge to protect yourself, and that is what gets the reaction that you see especially from bluepillers. You're supposed to protect yourself with this knowledge you're supposed to play along the script. If you aren't attractive and picked by women right now, you never will be. Do not hold onto hope that'll only hurt you worse as you go on. Accept this, make peace with it, and move on. Life beyond women exists and it's more than worth living. Don't let others bully you, don't let them treat you like some "lonely depressed boy that's easy to thrash around". Know your worth as a human and stand by it.

In case you missed the last post here that I made, here's the tl;dr. Women, in fact most women, are completely fine being in long-term relationships or marriages with men that they're either not that attracted to physically or guys that are not as attractive to them as their FWBs/hookups/casuals were. You know how that old saying goes "Men fuck who they can fuck, women fuck who they wanna fuck". It's completely and entirely true. My own experience from last week was a brutal demonstration of the fact, my mood has actually been shitty throughout the week because of that even right now. I'd rather not have been asked out at all, it's THAT bad.

I want you all to think about this for a moment. It's not that any of us have a right to sex or relationships, there's no such "right" and there never will be. Nor are we entitled to sex. Nor are we (or should we) try to stop people, women in this case, from enjoying their lives and doing whatever the hell they want with their times and bodies. Does it hurt? Sure. Why wouldn't it? The realization that you'll never ever be that kind of attractive to a woman, the realization that there is an entire class of men that don't even have to put in an infinitesimally small fraction of the "effort" you'd have to put in to access the sort of intimacy that you'll only ever dream of. The realization that an entire section of your life, that of uncomplicated, carefree sexual exploration, is something you're totally cut off from and will likely never access. All of these realizations would hurt anyone. You're not crazy for being hurt by this, you're not weak, you're not a terrible human being either.

This is, I believe, probably the most mainstream, most widely "accepted" or at least known blackpill to both men and women. I believe that if anyone here wants to mainstream the blackpill and spread this sort of awareness, this is the point where you should start. I'm not saying every man or woman has to do this, I'm saying that anyone who tries to talk about blackpill at least has a responsibility to address this giant elephant in the room that almost everyone acknowledges but almost no one seems to connect the dots here. Seriously, it's actually kinda hilarious how so few people, even blackpillers, tend to address this massive situation. So I'm going to do it, and I hope you all will as well now. The point of doing this is not to hurt anybody, it's not to hurt men nor is it to insult to dehumanize any woman. They're living their lives and if that means having sex with extremely attractive men, then that is simply their prerogative. I'll explain later why I believe this. The point of doing this is to protect you, my friend. To protect us all, actually. Allow me to explain

I don't believe, knowing all this, that long-term relationships with women actually worth much to us. Seriously, consider this. Why would you be with someone who isn't attracted to you, and only values you for what you can provide or the stability that a long-term relationship/marriage can bring? Why would you be with someone who is likely at least at some point comparing your attractiveness to her previous FWBs/casuals/hookups and finds you lacking, but doesn't reveal it because that would end the farce? Why would you be with someone who only sees you for the dependability that you could provide, but is not attracted to you as a man alone? Why, as a man, as a self-respecting human being, would you subject yourself to this? You wouldn't, at least I hope you wouldn't, and I believe spreading this awareness is key to achieving that. Long-term relationships with women are NOT a "favor" that they bestow upon you, men first need to get this out of their minds. This is the one thing that makes them desperate and settle for someone who isn't even attracted to them. They're not favors, they're not gifts, they're merely offers. And, like most offers, they're worthless. Utterly worthless. Ask yourself what you'll gain from it vs what you'll be providing WHILE KEEPING IN MIND EVERYTHING I JUST SAID/SHOWED PREVIOUSLY and you'll also arrive at the same conclusion. This has nothing against women, but we also don't owe them anything either do we?

So yes, this is my long rant/perspective but I believe this is very important to consider. Of course, there's gonna be exceptions too. There's probably going to be those extremely rare/gem women that will find you sexually attractive and will also want a LTR with you. And honestly, if you're lucky to encounter that dynamic, absolutely go for it. Treat her and yourself well. But for the rest of us, we know this isn't gonna happen. So what do we do? We do nothing, my fellow men. Or at least, nothing about this situation. We can't change women, nor should we try. So then, what? Well, the first step is acceptance. You need to truly, deeply accept this reality. Accept this and make peace with it, these are the first two steps that are crucial before you do anything else. Once you have truly done this, realize that there is a whole life beyond sexual or romantic relations. A whole life beyond women or how attractive they find you. Hobbies, interests, even friends. These are all things that are more than worth living for. Even academic/professional success, some people find fulfillment in that if that's you then absolutely go for it. Point is, once you truly accept and make peace with this, you don't need to give up on life because life doesn't revolve around women. It never did, and it never will. You're a worthy human being, you must respect yourself, your desires, your boundaries and your happiness. Chase that in whatever form that it takes, and don't let this fact of life drag you down the same way you wouldn't let any other physical fact of the universe drag you down either. Live for yourself and enjoy your time on this earth, life is worth living after all even if it isn't perfect.

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There you go. think of this the next time you want to think about "commitment" or "long-term relationships". Think of this the next time you're told to think about or look at all the "happily married couples" outside or "all the average looking guys with a girlfriend/wife that are outside". Most of it is a farce. Most women are not viscerally, sexually attracted to their husbands, divorce rates prove it along with other stats. Majority of the women value more the stability that comes with marriage, commitment or long-term relationships. You'd just be getting settled for, thinking that you finally won at life but you didn't. You're a "beta bux" in the most literal sense here as these screenshots and upvotes prove beyond a shadow of a doubt. If a woman isn't completely viscerally attracted to you sexually, she's not attracted to you at all. Everything else is cope. Always, ALWAYS, stay single than enter a "relationship" like this regardless of how tempting it seems at first. Respect yourself. You will probably not get what you want, that's life. It's never fair. Stop fighting this, accept it and make peace with it, and then do something else that adds value and meaning to your life. You deserve far better than relationships where your partner isn't attracted to you, and don't let any blue piller or red piller or anyone tell you otherwise. You're not crazy for wanting to be desired the same way.