Am I overreacting?
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So me and my husband have been together now for 7 years (married 10 months) just before we got married I found out I was pregnant. This shook me but my husband was so happy and supportive and was really excited.
During pregnancy everything was running smoothly until the last 3 months when husband decided to leave his job because of him and a colleague not getting on and decided to go and work with an imo questionable friend. He was working for 3 weeks before they both got fired which left me the sole income for the house which meant I was working up until 3 weeks before birth as husband still hadn't found a job. I stayed very calm through all of this and didn't argue or cause any friction in the house, I was only anxious I would not be able to stay home with baby once they were born.
Once we had the baby, which was a traumatic birth resulting in cat 1 emergency C-section we got home which is when everything change in my opinion. I was tackling the trauma of the birth and then doing all the night feeds, changes, and basic care of the baby. Husband seemed more than happy to let me, until we had a discussion and he took on one of the night feeds. Baby is now 10 weeks old and husband has a new job in retail, and now does basically nothing for the baby unless we have a lengthy discussion to which he will for a couple of days and then stops. He seems to be in bad moods and complains about work constantly.
I am running the house, the care of the baby, making sure food is on the table for him coming home, I am doing all of the night feeds, shopping. All husband does is goes to work and will occasionally make us a frozen meal and is then nit picking at little things like I'm using too much detergent in the laundry.
Am I not seeing something? Should I be worried about husband? Or am I right at being po at the situation? Is there anything I can do?