Me and gf broke up after 4 years
We have been having problems for months and I have said there are things I would like her to work on ( I know I have my own stuff too) but things like us trying to be more intimate etc.
She said she can’t give that to me right now and have said I have criticized her to much. This is true but I haven’t tried to be horrible and she calls me nasty person because I said that that there are areas in life that she needs to work on and then if I saw that I would be up for having another try in the relationship.
I have asked her to communicate her feelings / tell me stuff I do wrong coz there must be but she never express herself or communicates with me in general.
I am autistic so obviously not the easiest person to be with but it’s impossible task when she don’t tell me things I need to work on and when I tell her the things she needs to work on she sees it as nasty.
Don’t know what to do as I live with her and ultimately would like to stay with her but we just don’t align in our communication styles. 😕
Thanks for reading as I’m clearly just having a vent.