Am I crushing my man’s ego?
I use my pretty privileges to get free things for the past 2 years I’ve been with my man. He never cared. At least he said he didn’t. Now we are engaged & I’ve asked him about anything I need to change or refrain from doing now that we’re taking things further. He said no, you’re everything. Okay cool. But I hear the little remarks here & there. When I call it out he just jokes like “oh you’re not going anywhere I’m not worried” so I just don’t want to lose my man over a deep, tucked away insecurity that I caused. I know exactly what other guys want, I’m not dumb but I am stern & highly respected. My presence is usually enough for a man to want to do something for me.
Could I secretly be crushing my man’s ego by accepting gifts & favors from other men?