Starting something new 🥰
My husband and I (both M) have been chatting with and going on dates with a wonderful new fella, and so far all the flags are green 😁
We've been poly for several years, tried dating solo of each other and didn't like it, and then had a year-long quad relationship with another duo that ultimately fell apart due to jealousy (on their part, not ours). It's been just the two of us for a few years now.
We know that what we are looking for (moving from an existing duo into a trio or quad, etc.) is challenging / rare to find. We've been patiently working on ourselves and finding contentment in our lives, and this wonderful guy just kinda appeared in our lives.
It's early days, and we've learned to be cautious and not rush into anything, AND I'm really enjoying this magic moment in our lives.
We are having a "defining the relationship" conversation this week, and I'm excited for the possibility and anxious that it may not be the result I hope for.