u/Maleficent_Hat7621

my son found my sex toy, (29F) he is 12 yr old M.. to be more specific it was a viborator you can insert. I went in his room this weekend to grab his laundry and found my toy by his bed! When I asked him about it he said he used it how it was supposed to be used.. a bit shy at first but then after talking he did admit to putting it inside himself in the behind. so many questions here.. first would that mean he is gay? totally fine if he is I’m really just trying to understand. 2nd is this normal!? I feel crazy. I mean I know I was curious and I peaked in my parents drawers but never to use anything on myself. I have had talks with him and explained “releasing himself” in the shower.. he shares a room with a younger brother so I explained how that would be the most private. I need help 😅