My friends are invalidating me and im geting tired.
Hi everyone, so im 22M who, broke up with his ex months ago and let say one year ago and i grieved the breakup with crying, days without eating, etc. The thing later i felt i didnt loved the woman, ofc i cared for her, was attached but during relationship i was avoidant and i always had thinkings of leaving her.
So now post breakup i said i wanted to fall in love for the first time, to be vulnerable and be more open and my friends would accept this superfically but then they would say:
-"But u loved her, we saw it".
-"We remember u talking abt her a lot, that u felt and cried, u were in love".
-"U healed alone so u were in love".
And this happened like 3-5 times and im getting tired and bothered, because they also say given i was confused back in the relationship how they can believe me now.
I feel they are invading my inner world and disminshing it, idk what to do.
