u/Lucky-Loquat-3552

This is the first Pisces I’ve dated he’s absolutely amazing. He’s an extremely curious person, emotionally deep, caring and hilarious. We’ve been dating for a little over a year now. We get along really well and are always laughing together. We’ve talked about our future together, wanting to get married someday and have kids. He is planning on applying to masters programs out of the state and we have talked about me moving along with him when he does because I work remote. I’m not sure if this is a Pisces trait, but he is very cautious and thinks things through which me being an Aries I am quite impulsive. For instance, he contemplated telling me he loved me for the first time for several months because he didn’t want to scare me away, so he waited until six months to tell me that he loved me because apparently from his online research that is appropriate timing for that…so onto our current dilemma, I really would like to move in with him. We spend almost 5 days a week together. I feel like it’s time and makes sense that we live together now before we eventually move out of state probably within a year or two. I have kind of broached the conversation indirectly about us moving in together but he never seems to take the bait and always seems to get a little uncomfortable when the conversation comes up so I’m wondering if this is a common trait with Pisces? Also how to approach the conversation directly without putting pressure on him. Not only would we be able to spend so much time together, but it makes financial sense as well. Would love to hear your thoughts and or experiences.

My boyfriend and I were out at lunch today at a Mexican restaurant in the suburbs of where we live. And not really like it matters much but it is a relatively diverse area… anyways so we’re sitting outside on the patio and this guy that had just left the bar is walking to his car and as he was walking out he makes a weird gag noise. At first, I didn’t really think much of it. I was just like that’s weird. Whatever. Then he drives by and yells race traitor out of his window to me and my boyfriend and a few minutes pass again and he drives by on the main road and screams across several lanes of traffic out of his window “RACE TRAITOR” for a second time. So we asked the manager to move inside. Let them know what’s happening and that he should not be allowed back there. We finally find a seat inside and the hostess says there’s a man named John on the phone for you…so I start freaking out bc clearly it’s this guy calling. I immediately start grabbing our things and panicking bc I don’t feel safe at all. I have lived in the south most of my life and have dated outside of my race and I have never experienced anything like that before. Yeah I’ve gotten the stares or just unnecessary attitude when I’ve gone out with a SO but never what I experienced today. I’m still furious and lost for words. I have the bigots phone number (from when he called the restaurant) and I’ve located him and his wife’s LinkedIn. I wish I had it on recording because I would post that in a heartbeat with him and his business tagged. Either way, stay vigilant. Love is love regardless of skin color or gender. Unfortunately even in 2026 people have a problem with that and feel empowered to make it known, so stay aware and safe out there.