Am I in the minority?
55f. Divorced almost 4 years after a 30 year marriage. Totally open to dating, but I’m perfectly content alone. That said, show me a kind man with a big sexy brain and their appearance (excluding hygiene) isn’t necessarily that important. Am I in the minority?
So many men and women our age prioritized spouses, kids, careers, aging parents and Lord knows what else, that we didn’t notice we were last on a very long list.
Our bodies represent the lives we have lived. Why is finding grace in that fact so difficult for us to give and accept?
Am I the hottest thing in shoe leather? Nope. But I’ve worked hard on myself and am pretty flippin happy mentally and physically. I like what I see and who I am. I know my worth and it’s not tied to the elasticity of my skin.
Before y’all come at me, this is just my perspective and I know you can’t paint everyone with a broad stroke. I’m just curious. Are you all about physical appearance? In it for the hook ups? Looking for “The One”? Given up? Content on your own?