I have 17 years-old, female. And i few weeks ago, I started having accidents, both day and night, as a result of being under a lot of stress and sleeping little.
So my mom started buying me diapers. I have no problem with it; I feel safer wearing them, and they've even helped my self-esteem.
The problem is, my mom thinks I'm a baby who doesn't know how to use the toilet.
He always acts like he wants to change me, wants to check me over, and gets angry if I don't let him.
And worse still, she does it in public. For example, last week we went out to eat together, and at one point she lifted my dress and put her hand inside my diaper, and wanted to change me.
Or also, yesterday he took me to a shopping mall with my boyfriend, and he told him "please check Evelyn's diaper, she can't hold it and it leaks."
As a side note, my boyfriend didn't know I still have to wear diapers, and it was quite embarrassing.
She does things like that every day, in private and in public, and even though I've already told her that it makes me uncomfortable and embarrassed, she doesn't care.
And I feel so embarrassed and I feel like crying every time he does that, and since he started doing that, my accidents are getting worse, I feel more anxious and stressed, and that contributes to me wetting myself without realizing it
I hate this whole situation. I don't mind having to wear diapers; I've resigned myself to it. What I hate is how my mom reacts to it.
Any advice, questions, or opinions?
By the way, English isn't my first language, so please excuse any mistakes.