So my lo is turning 11 months in a week. He isnt sleep trained. We safe cosleep and have done since he was 3 months. He was doinv 2 naps from 7 months and his night sleep was good since we stopped breastfeeding. He started fighting his second nap week ago but i still rocked him to sleep with all the extra efforts . But then he stated fighting his first nap too. So i thought hey may be he is one nap ready. We experimented two day but napping at noon. Oh boy! Was i wrong. He had horrible naps and horrible night sleep for two days.
So i thought i will do two naps because he isnt clearly ready. I was able to get him to sleep but fixing his ww to 3.5-3.75 ( asked chatgpt). He did good nap without waking up for one hour and 20 minutes. For his second ww i tried for 3.5 . But he didnt want to nap fought so hard even though he was clearly rubbing his eyes on me and yawning and all those sleep cues. I was finally able to get him down after 4 hours ww.
But i need help . I dont want to be fighting this hard with him to nap. Sorry for the long message you guys. I am very desperate.