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Hey everyone, I just wanted to say thank you for all the support on my last post and the video I shared. I honestly didn’t expect it, but it meant a lot reading through everyone’s experiences and realising I’m not alone in this.

It’s actually made me think even more about what it means to live as a highly sensitive person.

For most of my life, I’ve been trying to force myself to keep up with everyone else.
Full-time work, busy environments, always being “on”… and it just kept leading to burnout.

I always thought I just needed to be stronger or better at handling things.

But I’m starting to realise something different.

Maybe it’s not that I can’t handle life…
maybe I’ve been trying to live a life that doesn’t suit me.

So lately I’ve been experimenting with a few things that have genuinely been helping:

• slowing my life down instead of constantly pushing
• being much more protective of my energy
• not forcing myself into environments that drain me
• focusing on depth instead of doing more
• trying to build something simpler that I can actually sustain

It still feels uncomfortable at times… and I’m definitely still figuring it out.

But it’s the first time it feels like I’m working with myself instead of against myself.

I’m really curious how others here approach this.

Have you found ways to build a life that actually works for you as an HSP?

Hey everyone! It’s me again Justin 30M.

I’ve been struggling with something for a long time and I’m curious if other HSPs can relate.

How do you actually make a living in a job you don’t mind doing?

I don’t even mean a “dream job” just something that doesn’t feel draining or pointless. I find that if a job doesn’t feel meaningful or aligned with some kind of purpose, I really struggle to stay motivated. It starts to feel heavy very quickly, like I’m going against myself just to get through the day.

I’m 30 now and I still don’t know what direction to take, even after completing 3 degrees. On paper, it probably looks like I should have it figured out by now but internally, I feel just as unsure as ever.

As an HSP, I feel like I can’t just “switch off” and do something for the sake of money. It affects me too deeply. But at the same time, I know I need to support myself and build some kind of stable life.

I guess I’m wondering:

- Have you found work that feels okay (or even meaningful)?

- Did it come from following your interests, or just trying things until something stuck?

- How do you balance sensitivity with the reality of needing an income?

Would really appreciate hearing your experiences especially if you’ve felt this same tension between needing purpose and needing stability.