7oh has ruined my marriage.
Hey everyone, posting looking for support. My (26F) husband (28M) was trying to get sober from mostly benzos when we met. He had also used meth, crack, adderall, pretty much anything he could get his hands on. I have struggled with alcohol and substance abuse in the past but have been sober besides having a drink on 3-4 occasions since 2021. He has had relapses in the past 3 years but things really went downhill when he started using 7oh. It turns him into a completely different person. He blows so much money on it. I constantly am watching our bank account like a hawk. I have went from having to hide my prescription medications because he’s stolen from me multiple times, to physically wearing them on my body at all times in my purse. He recently got on suboxone a few days ago and I’ve been dispensing it twice a day like a pharmacist. He just bought more 7oh today behind my back. When he’s not using, he’s the sweetest, most gentle man in the world. He’s funny and kind and supportive and nurturing. When he is using he’s distant, cold, angry. We have 2 children together and one from my previous relationship. My youngest is 2 months, oldest is 8. I don’t know what to do anymore. He claims he wants to get clean and then shows the opposite. I love him so much, he’s the most amazing thing that ever happened to me but I’m no longer married to the man I once knew. Just a vent post because my heart is shattered into a million tiny pieces and I’m so tired of constantly feeling this way. How do I help my addict husband? How do I save my marriage? Someone please help me.