u/LenoreBusker

my only serious relationships have been with women and i’m a lowkey misandrist , but i’ve been bored and frankly the options for other sapphics in my area aren’t ideal. but holy fuck, ever since i’ve turned on my settings on hinge to include men, i’ve been bombarded with likes and messages and it feels suffocating. it’s not even that these are predatory messages or anything like that — it’s just too much. it’s every hour, a new like, a new pickup line, a new ugly to average looking man that gives me a churning feeling in my stomach wanting to court me and i hate it. how does anyone do this? am i just in my quarter life crisis?

EDIT: upon reflection i’m probably just gay like i thought i was before, and if that’s proven wrong at some point, well! i guess that’s something i’ll deal with when the time comes won’t i

greetings from huntsville! i’m 26F planning a quick turn and burn for a concert at nissan stadium this summer, and i’m looking at tickets for when my check hits next week. one issue, though: i have a condition similar to epilepsy that has sent me into migraines at best and convulsive seizures at worst, as well as just general chronic pain that sometimes affects my ability to walk properly.

i do not want to pay extra for accessible seating if i can help it (the jump in prices is crazy!), nor do i want to potential take seats away from those who need them more as i don’t require any aids. which section of the stadium would be best for me to look at? i want to be able to get out of dodge easily if the show ends up triggering anything, but i also want to enjoy the show itself as much as i can. it’ll be my first stadium show (but far from my first concert) and my first time in nissan so i have no idea how everything is laid out. any help would be greatly appreciated!

i’m not one of the schizos who think pits should be eradicated off the face of the earth but i don’t particularly like them either. a lot of them are just ugly and too high strung for me. but in my experience of being both in areas with a lot of pitbulls and also just being online i’ve never seen a real cool girl own one. they’re all either serial killer fangirl adjacent or secret crackheads.