u/Learning2mom

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Ugly nose head teeth

My husband has always made fun of my nose teeth and head shape. He has hurt me a lot. But he does a lot too. We have two kids. Tonight we were trying to have sex and I got upset he was being rough and I wanted connection. I told him he got irritated I made it obvious he got mad. I can hear him in another room scrolling on ig stories. I’m crying on the couch we have had drinks and 420. He thinks I’m drama and honestly I am. I’m sensitive and going thru stuff health wise. He tells me he loves me but when this stuff happens he’s so cold. When he’s overwhelmed he’s cold. It hurts extra right now because we were being intimate and he just stopped and said he was done and now is scrolling away while he can hear me cry. I don’t think this is normal but I don’t want to believe it. There’s too much going on right now I couldn’t leave and my kids would be affected we have nothing. But also I’m worried this is unhealthy and maybe this is also impacting my health issues more. Am I the drama?

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u/Learning2mom — 4 days ago