Like, for real, this gets mentioned so so much, and I probably have asked this question 1.5 years ago as well.
Folks keep throwing this around like “your self concept needs to be the one of being chosen”
I’ve done revision exercises where I revised some of my past situations to be chosen.
What else can I do?
Like, with my SP, I legitimately believe that I’m the best person for her… while in 3d I’m just watching her debunk it and her not seeing it and not choosing me!
Of course over time I feel like the non-LOA crew might be right, I’m just delusional, and need to respect her agency.
It of course makes me sad from the Neville/LOAs perspective.
Any hot tips on BEING CHOSEN?
Do I go to sleep at night going, “isn’t it wonderful that she has chosen me / that I am always chosen”