u/LeEmerso

Lets say we have someone who loves and values their wife. Not everybody values that persons wife but he does, which is an example of subjective value. If the nihilist goes on to say that nothing has value, would this just be stating that this man who loves his wife simply has no actual value for his wife in an objective and a subjective sense? This seems to be a bit of an absurd response. If the nihilist accepts that the man has subjective value for his wife, what differentiates nihilism and antirealism? Idk I feel like im missing something