u/Lazy_dayz11332

Eloping in a week, in-laws found out and want to be invited

I'm pregnant so my fiancé and I decided to change our wedding plans to a really small 5 person elopement us included. Literally 2 witnesses and an ordained friend. This has been our plan for over a month now and the ceremony is in a week. My fiancé felt the need to tell his parents so there's no secrets being held. I was fine with that until the week before our wedding they are insisting we invite immediate family so they can be there. For the past month I've been excited about our plans and now I'm just really upset. The location is extremely small. It's a viewpoint lookout on the coast. I don't know if I'm overreacting but I no longer feel excited for my wedding, it's hard for me to think about writing vows and I'm more stressed over this change than anything. I feel like if I say no I look like the ultimate B and will be disliked by his family but I also feel like my desires for our wedding are overruled by his desire to please everyone. I don't know what to do because I feel like this should be a happy time and I'm stressed and I hate that this is how my memory of our wedding day will be. Help.

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u/Lazy_dayz11332 — 3 days ago