u/Lazy_Maybe_1921

Lot of men complain nonstop about women wanting money, yet they look for women to finance their lifestyle, split every bill while still doing all the emotional and domestic work, or specifically go after financially stable women because they want comfort without responsibilty.

And the funniest part? Some of them aren’t even rich🙄 They’re scared of “gold diggers” while making barely enough to cover their own expenses.

I don’t miss him, I don’t want him back, and I’m not hurt because he remarried. Our marriage was unhealthy and he put me through a lot. But i genuinely can’t understand how someone goes from a whole marriage to remarriage in just 3 months.

That’s the part messing with my mind.

Not because I feel “replaced” or “jealous”but because it makes me wonder if he was already emotionally somewhere else long before the divorce even happened , like how do you process an entire marriage, a divorce, and start a new marriage that quickly?

Meanwhile i’m still mentally unpacking everything that happened between us, not grieving him, just the experience itself. Maybe men move on differently, maybe some people prepare themselves emotionally before leaving, I honestly don’t know. But the speed of it feels unreal to me