I (25F) have lived with my parents since I graduated college 3 years ago. During this time, I have gotten extremely close to my family, particularly my mom and dog. I love my job, but know it’s not my forever job (mostly because of lack of good benefits— I absolutely adore what I do otherwise). However, I commute about 1 hour 15 min to work each day. I occasionally am able to work from home.
The opportunity has come up to move a lot closer to my job (about 20 min away) with a good friend from college. Part of me feels like it’s objectively the right thing to do— although I lived independently in an apartment in college, I know I have to learn more about how to be a functional adult. However, the thought of moving makes me physically sick. I love my home and the extra time I’m afforded with my family. Plus, saving up money is a great plus. I just worry that I’m becoming too comfortable and it’s hindering my growth a bit.
Part of me thinks maybe I should just go in on this apartment with my friend and know I can always come home on weekends, but even the bit of time I’d be missing with them throughout the week makes me burst into tears.
Should I stick with the great situation I have or take the leap? Any advice would be appreciated