u/Lavender_Scales

There is more to passing than HRT or your body.

Y’all I’ve been here a while but so many posts I see are what I would assume to be a cis woman, until I see the clothes. You gals got to work on your closets, we’ve all been in there for a time so it’s best to familiarize yourself with the contents in there lol

So many times I’ll meet trans people of any which way (transfem, transmasc, enby, whatever), and the most clocky thing to me, and to others, is the fashion. I think you guys know what I’m talking about, the hoodies, the Amazon basics black skirts, the thigh highs, things you don’t really see on cis women out and about.

A very helpful thing to do, that also helped me a lot, was just looking at the fashion of women around me. “Oh this lady is wearing this dress, she has a similar body type to mine, and this dress looks good on her, I should emulate that style.” So many of us spend too much time looking in the mirror for faults that we don’t consider looking at the positives in others.

If a lady (or man, or whoever) catches your eye, ask yourself why they did, think about how you can apply that to yourself and your look, and try it out.

So much of passing is about how other people perceive you, so perceive others and apply that to yourselves. A good outfit, a good hairstyle, etc., can more than make up for whatever could be going on with your face or voice that could be clocky to others.

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u/Lavender_Scales — 12 days ago
▲ 487 r/genzdong+4 crossposts

Hello everyone, I'm u/Lavender_Scales!

Like I mentioned in the discord post, I'm the newest moderator of this subreddit. I'm making this post to be transparent about how moderation has been taken out in the past, and how it will be taken out in present and future.

For a very long time now, this subreddit has had a reputation of shoddy moderation, no transparency, seeming inactivity from moderators, unfair, unexplained bans, and unresponsive modmails. This reputation is not without warrant, I myself was once on the receiving end of this, however, we're going to be more pro-active with moderation, more transparent, and more active. If you, or someone you know, was banned from this subreddit, encourage them to open up a modmail and appeal their ban.

I would also like everyone to take a moment to look at our general bans policy, they include listed punishments, offenses, as well as information on what can and can't be appealed. It has not been updated for quite a while, so some changes may be made in the future, however, from now on we will try and be more upfront with removals, bans, etc., utilizing this system and the reasoning provided..

There was also a post by a rogue moderator a few weeks ago, that moderator has left the team and many of the bans they issued out were revoked. Future mod actions will now have to go through internal discussion, unless clear harmful intent is showcased by a user, requiring moderator action.

At the moment we only have a few active moderators of our subreddit, or at least only a few we can get ahold of, so we are also opening mod applications. Due to our heavily ML leaning mod team we currently have, we are primarily looking for anarchists, or people of any tendency that isn't ML. We would also like to prioritize BIPOC & other applicants from the global south, however none of these are strict requirements. Women, queers, and others are also encouraged to apply.

Apply here!

u/Frankie-Denton-2020s — 18 days ago
▲ 88 r/theredleft+1 crossposts

It commemorates the sentencing to death of seven anarchist workers in Chicago who were wrongly convicted for throwing a bomb at police who attacked a strike demonstration in May 1886.

80,000 workers in Chicago had walked out on May 1 demanding a maximum 8-hour working day, alongside over 200,000 other workers across the US. Employers and the government were determined to crush the movement, and four of the anarchists were executed, with the fifth cheating the hangman by killing himself. An eighth was sentenced to 15 years' imprisonment. The surviving three were later pardoned, and the fight for the 8-hour day continued.

Before his execution, defendant August Spies told the court: "if you think that by hanging us you can stamp out the labor movement – the movement from which the downtrodden millions, the millions who toil and live in want and misery, the wage slaves, expect salvation – if this is your opinion, then hang us! Here you will tread upon a spark, but here, and there, and behind you, and in front of you, and everywhere, flames will blaze up. It is a subterranean fire. You cannot put it out."

Socialist and workers' organizations later chose May 1 to be celebrated as International Workers' Day, and today it is celebrated as a national holiday in many countries around the world, and an unofficial one in many others.

u/Lavender_Scales — 19 days ago

Hello all! I'm the newest moderator of r/Socialism. I've been doing some work behind the scenes, answering mod mails, looking at appeals, and most importantly, helping to set up the brand new discord!

If you had attempted to join the discord through the automod response, or through the sidebar's link, you were formerly directed towards a dead server. Now, the server is (mostly) set up, and you may join it.

It is still pretty barebones, we have roles and channels set up however suggestions can be made *within the server* on things that could be added.

For now, here is the invite link, join away!

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u/Lavender_Scales — 22 days ago

I moderate on r/Socialism and it seems that for some reason the community is being blocked in the UK and other places, requiring users to use the ID to verify their age. Our subreddit is not NSFW, or a porn one, or anything like that, (it's the socialism sub, for crying out loud), so how do we reverse this? I can't submit an appeal to mark the sub as not NSFW, as it isn't marked NSFW, yet it's still blocked, and we're unable to see by what metric is causing the block. Any help is appreciated.

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u/Lavender_Scales — 23 days ago