u/Lavender-haze_11

Hello everyone! I’m new to Joe’s work and I have read his books Supernatural, proceeding to read his other books too. I am about to start meditating with his TINP meditation.
One of the things I’d like to attract in my life is (romantic) love. I know he says we have to stay detached from the outcome, but my question is what happens when I already have someone in mind? I don’t intent too, but even in moments of meditation and quiet , he pops up in my mind automatically. Should I just say in my meditation “Him or someone better”? Will that put strain in the outcome?
Thank you all for your time!!