Does anyone think the imbalance of Tenzin and Pema is a bit dodgy..
There's a 16yr age gap between the two. Pema was 25 yr when she had Jinora whilst Tenzin was already 41yr.
He is a teacher and leader of the Acolyte (aka a cult?). He would've had many young women fawning over him similar to Aang had experienced. Did Tenzin even see her, like her or know her or he just needed a wife?
She seems to have no agency or personality outside of being a mother. So she comes across a brood mare.
Thoughts?
Please don't downvote if you disagree, this post was to foster discussion!