u/LanningRice-70

dating someone who’s really close with his mom and at first i honestly thought it was sweet. but lately every future conversation somehow turns into staying nearby or living together for a while and i can already feel the tension building before we’re even married. its weird because nobody is being openly rude about it. just little comments here and there like a son should stay close to family and mothers get lonely too and suddenly i’m sitting there wondering if i’m joining a marriage or a whole existing setup that already has rules lol

what caught you off guard after marriage and what actually helped keep things healthy without constant drama