My baby has anencephaly. She will be 13 weeks 6 days tomorrow by measurements, but by dates (which were correct, I had an early scan) she should be measuring 14 weeks 6 days. Her name is Cassie.
I could have waited and had a surgical termination, but that felt like torture waiting another 2 weeks and travelling 3 hours. And then needing directions to avoid protesters. So tomorrow they start the second part of the medical termination, and I know it's going to be awful. The process will have to start with me on my own as my husband can't get up to the hospital until after the second dose goes in. And apparently they need to confirm we can even have a private cremation because the cut off at this hospital is 14 weeks and she's a single day off.
None of this is fair, and I want to scream and throw things. Hugs to everyone else going through it or who has gone through it.