u/LadyBird902

Me and my friend are moving in together but we haven’t decided on who gets the bigger room. Well actually I think he already decided because when we talked about it he was talking like that was his room already.

It’s a condo and it’s really nice but the weird thing is that there’s a back door in the bigger bedroom. Either way that room is way bigger than the other room, way bigger closet, and it has a connecting bathroom that’s pretty big and much nicer. The other bedroom doesn’t have a connecting bathroom, is smaller and is ofc the general bathroom for when guest come over.

For reference I’m a girl and he’s a guy. My sister said he should get that room bc he’s a guy and the door is such a weird placement so if anything happens… lol. I definitely wouldn’t mind paying more but idk how to bring it up. He hasn’t brought the idea up either so I feel awkward. *I don’t mind either room I just feel weird bringing it up cause it feels like im calling it out since he’s already mentioned wanting the bedroom lol. *

What would be a fair split?

I'm barely a freshman in college so I know I have to figure stuff out but working as a CNA at a assisted living facility has really made me question everything. Maybe it's just the fact that CNAs have it rough and there's many other healthcare careers but idk. I hate ADLs and dread it so bad. I wanted to do an emt certification bc perhaps it's more clinical rather than having to do ADLs but I really don't know what I want. I'm scared I'll do the certification and then realize I hate that too. I never rly thought of doing anything other than healthcare, and the college I go to is very hard to internally transfer depending on what major you want so I feel conflicted and like I already invested in this major since I went a bit far from home /tuition and housing😭 idk I just need to vent lol