Overextending Fe
Anyone else here the mom/therapist to their friends? I grew up thinking I was a feeler probably for that reason. I love socializing and also love some good juicy gossip (I think a lot of that is the Ne-Fe), but I get so caught up in it all that I eventually crash hard where I don't want to see anyone, I start feeling resentful of those who lean on me with their problems (it doesn't help that my Ti sits there listening to them and thinks you could have avoided these situations, why do you keep making the wrong choices. Use your reason next time..) I think it's tough to be a confident sometimes because the Ne Fe makes us maybe excited at first and very approachable. But that Ti doesn't have the patience nor does it want to blindly be like "here here. Poor you, you sad little victim". I'm on the verge of burnout rn lol can you tell