I am the Virgo, my mother is the Pisces.
My mom got married 5 years ago with the sole intent of moving out fast from our old family home, where we lived together with my aunt and my grandma, because she felt like she couldn't deal with them anymore.
We now live in much more struggle than before, i feel isolated and disconnected from my old peers, and have significantly less space to be myself. Because of that, as i am 18 now, i have planned to go back to living there and even get into a better university than the ones we have in our current town, but she keeps insisting i should not, often not even being coherent in her justifications:
"You can't trust them, they will abandon you when you need it" (they have always protected me, specially when she was being abusive)
"You'll just bring more work to your grandma" (she always discourages me from doing any housework, and my grandma would have the patience to teach me)
"You have no idea of what this family can do to you"(she does have a point in this, because she did suffer abuse living with our relatives as a kid, but i actively avoid contact with those people. And they'd rarely visit)
Is there any insight to be taken by our synastry? I mostly distrust my mother, but i want to know to what extent is she actually worried about me, and to what extent is she actually just wanting to trap me with her, and keep restricting my growth.