I met an incredible Black man who wants to take things further (relationship wise) with me. His stats are what Black gay dreams are made of and he is into me, another Black man. He is undetectable and I am HIV-negative.
The problem: I can't get it out of my head that if he was not undetectable, he wouldn't be interested in me. I can't help but think that he has been disadvantaged by HIV and is now open to a long-term relationship with men who previously wouldn't have stood a chance with him. I don't know why that bothers me, and it may not be true, but I can't shake the feeling. Anyone else felt this before? Your advice could help.
u/KrispyBlack — 16 days ago