u/Khaldolenn

Failure and being on the wrong are a necessity, and i believe they hold higher value than not failing once.

Let's talk about failure first. By failing you realise that there was an underlying problem that wasn't much of a problem to you before until you reached a specific point, making you redirect yourself to the true path and making you progress faster and better.

On the other hand being wrong, people avoid hard conversation for the very same reason, you NEED to know that you are wrong, don't let your ego hold you, because you will never realise how limiting the belief that you have right now.

As you have noticed even though failure or being wrong sounds like walls or obstacles, but in fact they accelerate the process, you need to be WRONG, and you need to FAIL To succeed.

You will surely improve at anything better by removing, adapting or redirecting yourself than adding new things.

you can think about failure and being wrong as your friends, as they reveal the dead weight that was slowing you down all along.

And remember dear reader that iron without hammering nor fire will always stay the same.

Embrace the suffering, embrace the hardships and become adaptable as they are all necessities and step stones towards greatness.

(If any of the mods is reading this please make a flair for writing or essays)

u/Khaldolenn — 8 days ago

Runway

العارضيين الوحيدين البيظهرو لي من الجنوب، ما شايف من السودان

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u/Khaldolenn — 9 days ago

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Shaving your head back in school wasn't a form of "discipline", but rather a tool of cultural erasure and colonial control.

They stopped doing it in the west (which is where the practice even came from) since 1969-1975. Almost half a century ago, yet you, the poor negro, still gotta shave your hair or else you will get severely punished by your school.

They make it seem like your natural hair is something to be ashamed of. Something taboo.

And the worst part is, it actually worked, it has been deeply engraved into your mind, you believe that anything besides a shaved head isn't as professional.

The majority of us can't even name a pre colonial hairstyle for men which is really concerning.

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u/Khaldolenn — 10 days ago