u/Key_Salad_7506

so ive recently started stretching my ears, i got to 14g perfectly fine it went in so easily, but now after over a month 12g won’t go in. i dont wanna force it in and savage my ears of anything but i really wanna size up!!!!! what do i do? i use so much jojoba oil every time i try, i can get it slightly through both front and back of the hole then it gets stuck in the middle. i’m sick of this