u/Key_Pen6254

Heyy,i know im young and im getting to know a man and its going towards something serious like marriage etc. Hes 10 years older and hes an amazing hes what we call “good on paper” i just dont know if hes my nassib since everything went smoothly with us we’ve been talking/together for 4 months almost he lives in a different country but i cant help a gut feeling that doesnt feel quite right i dont know if its my shaytan or if im too caught up in this dunya but i did istikhara i never really got any signs except once and i woke up being happy then at night we had a huge fight that led us to going in a break and in our i’ve never felt better and ever since me and him started talking me and my mom started having more arguments about me and him because she’s telling i shouldn’t let him go because he has all qualities of a good man i genuinely dont know if hes my nassib or not i dont know what to do, all though his whole family loves me im truly lost