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Curious lang kami and looking for advice/experience from others. 🥹

Sa mga eventually nagmana or mamamana yung old house ng parents/in-laws, ano muna ginawa niyo before kayo nagstay doon permanently?

• Nagstay ba muna kayo with parents habang nag-iipon?
• Nag-rent muna kayo para magkaroon ng sariling space as a couple?
• Or nagpagawa talaga kayo ng sariling bahay kahit eventually may mamanahin naman?

Honestly, gusto talaga namin bumukod and magkaroon ng place na mafe-feel naming “amin” as a couple. Kaso nanghihinayang din kami sa possible gastos if magpapagawa pa kami ng sariling bahay tapos eventually may house naman na mapupunta samin in the future.

Gusto na lang sana namin na mag-rent muna for peace of mind and independence.

Would really appreciate hearing your experiences, regrets, lessons learned, or guidance especially sa mga dumaan na dito 🙏🏼

Curious lang and honestly medyo napaisip ako recently.

We’re getting married soon and plan talaga namin bumukod after the wedding. Pero may nakausap yung fiancé ko na friend niya, and he shared na hindi siya fan ng bumukod agad. For them daw, staying with his mom was a “God send” especially when they had kids, may tumutulong, may kasama, less pagod daw overall.

Hearing that made me a bit scared, not gonna lie 😅

On the other hand, I also see a lot of couples who chose to move out early and kinakaya naman. Sabi nila mahirap, yes, pero the peace of mind, privacy, and freedom hits different.

For those na bumukod agad then eventually had a baby, any regrets? Did you ever wish you stayed with family for support? Or mas worth it pa rin yung independence kahit mas mahirap?

Would really appreciate honest experiences, both good and bad. I think I just need a bit of real life perspective 🥺

Thank you so much!