u/Key_Captain2533

like the title suggests, im just so frustrated with what i am. i hate being aromantic. i can see myself in relationships with people, i want to love them and make someone feel appreciated. i want to be in love, able to depend on one person and be happy. but that attraction is not there, i can’t love anyone no matter how hard i try. hell, in a somewhat recent relationship i couldn’t find that romantic attraction and ended it. relationships just end up being too much, but maybe thats because my ex was incredibly needy and overbearing. i want to be able to feel it so bad, i don’t know if this is normal for other aromantics or maybe i just haven’t found “the one.” if i can feel platonic love, and strongly, why not romantic? i don’t feel normal and i hate it