i f19 became close to a m20 in college. we became more than friends. he started drugs 16. od’d in dec 25 and told his family and bsf he stopped. i realized he didn’t stop and was hitting it super hard. i told his bsf but i didn’t know he was hiding it from him. i told him everything abt his basically month long bender. his bsf told his parents now he’s leaving school a week early and definitely going to rehab.
he’s so mad at me. he told me wishes he never met me, i ruined his plans for the summer, i didn’t ask him what he wanted, never speak to his friends and family again, etc. he said he had his own treatment lined up and i overstepped.
it really hurt idk if i should have minded my business. a part of me hopes with time he’ll forgive or if i should’ve said nothing. he wasn’t doing weed or just drinking. it’s molly, shrooms, 1000mg edible, alc, and coke. he even stopped taking his antidepressants and mood stabilizers. then talking about moving to europe or just traveling the world forever. i was just so concerned i cried and didnt nothing for 3 days. i just want him ok but idk