Parang lately ang dami kong nababasa here na mommies na pagod na. Dahil sa mga asawang feeling nila na may yaya na sila for life kapag nagasawa sila.
Yung may work nga pero señorito naman.
Yung “provider” nga pero parang unpaid accountant lng si misis na taga budget tapos nakukwestyon pa kapag kulang.
Mga feeling superior kasi SAHM lang si mommy.
Nakakalunkot isipin. As a mom, sana nakikinig sakin sila kapag sinasabihan ko sila na your future wife is not your maid. You need to carry your weight. Maayos naman daddy nila, tumutulong kahit SAHM lng ako.
Kaya lang love language ko kasi ang magsilbi. Nasabihan pa ako ng therapist na hayaan kong gawin ng anak ko ung mga bagay na para sa kanila (4yr old kid. I put shoes on for him, nasaway ako)
How do we balance being a caring mom and raise responsible boys? How can we avoid these red/blue pill groups? Kasi nga baka masanay na mapagsilbi ako at baka maging señorito pag laki. Dont get me wrong, inuutusan ko nmn sila sa bahay. Nasa tamad phase lang ata at puro simangot ung older kids ko.
Sa mga may adult kids who turned out well, how did you do it? How do we raise NOT misogynistic/misandrist kids? I have 1 adult female kid, she doesn’t want to have kids or marry kasi in this economy daw, pero borderline misandrist sya kahit maayos nmn daddy Nila.
Sa mga mommies naman na maayos ang rs sa partners nila, did you lay out your expectations before living in/marriage? - kami hindi, pero blessing lang na we do things for each other even if not asked. Perhaps we were raised on how to read a room and be considerate. Tinuturo ko nmn ito. But sometimes i fear it falls on deaf ears.