I came to realise In the end, it was never personal.
It was just people acting in their best interest at that particular moment and you probably just were collateral damage.
This doesn't make it right, but realising that you weren't really a specific target is the first step to forgiveness.
Don't take things too personal because many people lack self control, are immature and are prone to lashing out at the first sign of disagreement or tension.
The earlier you know this, the better. Stay Sharpish!