Hope it's okay for me to ask about it here.
I'm a Cap F and he's a Libra M. We've been best friends for two years. We made it clear that we don't want to be in a relationship. He always chase problematic girls anyways (his last gf of a month called the cops on him 5 times just to mess with him, and the one before that sold drugs. He has a savior complex and always wants to help people) I have my shit together, and I'm business oriented. I prefer safe relationships. He likes chaos. We own a business together and his last girlfriend caused a lot of issues between us. After a month, he realized he missed us and broke up with her. During a conversation, he told me he felt horrible about pushing me away for a woman. He promised he wouldn't go on dating apps for 6 months. Today we were hanging out with a friend and he said he had downloaded Tinder again. I reminded him of his promise to me. To focus on our business. He was a bit tipsy, borderline drunk, and said he didn't remember the promise. Made it all about me wanting more than being friends. Even if I've been adamant that I don't want more. Told me I was being upset because of my feelings for him. Again that I don't have. He ended up forcing me to call this girl he's talking to and apologizing for hanging up the phone on her. Because he called her for the first time and I told him I wasn't gonna deal with more broken promises. So I took his phone and I hung up.
He was upset. Said he wanted to meet a life partner. I said that's fine just do it in 6 months like you promised me.
Anyways. I know this is messy. But I tried to put my foot down and he didn't care. I feel like he cares about me as a best friend, also the business, but he isn't as serious as he should and it's affecting our friendship.
We are both earth Venus, both water moons. We are best friends for a reason.
I just dislike how I feel like I'm being played right now and he doesn't seem to care about his promise.
We are both late 30s.